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Eleanor
Margaret Hayes

March 12, 1948 — October 22, 2024 · of Half Moon Bay, CA
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Their life

A life, in the things that were theirs.

Eleanor was born by the sea, the eldest of four. She taught third grade for thirty-eight years, kept a garden that drew the whole street to her gate, and was the kind of grandmother who always had butterscotch in her pocket. She believed the small things were the whole of a life.

“Find the smallest beautiful thing in the day, and tell someone about it.”
Eleanor Margaret Hayes
Eleanor, in her garden
She loved most
First light over her garden
Always carried
A handful of seeds, just in case
Known for
Feeding anyone who came to the door
Family
Two children, four grandchildren
What they loved most
Black coffee, no sugar
Her garden at dawn
A full kitchen table
Letters, written by hand
1948
Born by the sea
The eldest of four, raised on the coast.
1971
Began teaching
Thirty-eight years of third graders who never forgot her.
1996
Planted the garden
The one the whole street still stops to admire.
Special Moments

The pictures we hold onto.

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A message from Eleanor
“Don't be sad for too long. Put the kettle on, sit in the garden, and notice something lovely. I'll be in all of it.”
— Eleanor
Letters in the wind

Say the thing you didn't get to say.

Letters are never saved or read by anyone. They are written, released, and let go.
The memories we share

What people remember.

She taught me that the best part of any morning was the quiet before everyone woke. I still get up early, just to feel close to her.
Daniel
her son
Every child on the street learned to plant something in her garden. She made the world feel a little gentler.
Marie
a neighbour

If the words are hard, tell me one true thing about Eleanor and I'll help.

Recorded tributes
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Service & remembrance

If you would like to be there.

When
June 13, 2026 · 11:00 AM
Where
Linden Community Chapel
142 Seaside Avenue, Half Moon Bay, CA 94019
In lieu of flowers
Donations in Eleanor's name to American Cancer Society.